Wednesday, 4 May 2011

Keeping relationship strong for couples

Recipe for a peaceful and long lasting relationship:
  1. Never be mean to each other. 
  2. Do not induce sarcasm in your conversations. 
  3. Never try to over smart each other.
  4. Respect and appreciate individuality. 
  5. Do not look for discrepancies in personalities rather celebrate goodness of each other.
  6. And never act on doubts, as they are biggest mines in a relationship.   
Now by saying all this, I do not mean that one should ignore all the problems a couple may have, but once you have determined not to enter in to a conflict, I believe by keeping it simple and following above steps, rest of it can easily be dealt with.  

24 comments:

mindandbeyond said...

u know all that u just mentioned cant happen for real once u enter a relationship the first thing u do is being judgmental..

herenownotforever said...

i cant stop my sarcasm...i feel bad for who ever i get with...lol

Tauqeer said...

@mindandbeyond: Well I believe you don't really have to. It might be true that being judgemental is natural, yet concentration on positives is most important thing in my opinion.

@herenownotforever: I really like your nick! lol and no I am not being sarcastic here :P and erm... some people enjoy ONLY being sarcastic, and that is you must avoid:P otherwise AT TIMES it can be a good thing ...

Thank you guys for dropping by!

Ishi said...

good principles...difficult to stick to..but really helpful..:-)

Tauqeer said...

@Ishi: Well don't they say life is difficult? Sure it is, but if we keep it simple and straight, things are not so bad as said :)

Thanks for dropping by!

habloid said...

I vote for point 4, most imp!!!

Tauqeer said...

@habloid: I am sorry but you are not allowed to pick and choose. j/k

Thanks for your vote and stopping by!

blowitall said...

Well if things were to go smooth always it wouldve been awesome. Nothing can go smooth ever, you just gotta live with highs and lows and life is gonnaa rock real hard!

Tauqeer said...

@blowitall: Yup, I wouldn't disagree with you about that. Yet, one should always seek to move towards perfection... IMHO

Thanks for visiting :)

blowitall said...

IMHO kiya hota hai :s

Tauqeer said...

:) In My Humble Opinion*

anummunaf said...

true :)

m3az said...

ahaan but theres a long list of BUTSSSSSS:P I mean...ahh forget it@@...See couples fight coz they're meant to....if a couple doesnt then what kinda couple it that??

Tauqeer said...

@anummunaf: Thank you :)

@m3az: Very interesting perspective indeed, not that I agree but I like the way you think :P haha

Thank you both for commenting!

m3az said...

"We havent had a fight since we got married and infact...hear me bore you to death bla bla bla...These are all superficial speeches seriously and even between couple of a love marriage there are politics yup family politics believe it or not but there are!!!

Tauqeer said...

@m3az: Okay, I wouldn't disagree with anything you have said this time.

Two people living together are bound to see up and downs in life, either it be personal conflicts or external pressures.

All what I have tried to explain is that one should try to idealise a situation and try to work its way towards it. What I have given is an ideal situation, perhaps never be achieveable, yet something to look for.

m3az said...

stop looking for things which aren't achieveable....simple as that...but again thats my view:P

mazza said...

ah, i totally agree with mindandbeyond! thank you!

and what's wrong with sarcasm???

Tauqeer said...

@mazza: Hehe I know where you guys are coming from, yet I just tried to give an ideal situation ;)

and erm... nothing wrong with the occasional sarcasm, yet it MAY lead to not-so-nice-feelings in return :P

naba said...

i like it,i think some times meanness is important to value your kindness.overall very good recipe.

Heavenly Muse said...

Simple and true yet hard to be followed often

Tauqeer said...

@naba: Thank you for liking it :)

@Heavenly Muse: I like to keep things simple and take small steps :)

and who said life is easy anyways?

I am humbled by your comments. Please do come later.

Rapuncela said...

cool blog :)

Tauqeer said...

Thanks!