Recipe for a peaceful and long lasting relationship:
- Never be mean to each other.
- Do not induce sarcasm in your conversations.
- Never try to over smart each other.
- Respect and appreciate individuality.
- Do not look for discrepancies in personalities rather celebrate goodness of each other.
- And never act on doubts, as they are biggest mines in a relationship.
23 comments:
u know all that u just mentioned cant happen for real once u enter a relationship the first thing u do is being judgmental..
i cant stop my sarcasm...i feel bad for who ever i get with...lol
@mindandbeyond: Well I believe you don't really have to. It might be true that being judgemental is natural, yet concentration on positives is most important thing in my opinion.
@herenownotforever: I really like your nick! lol and no I am not being sarcastic here :P and erm... some people enjoy ONLY being sarcastic, and that is you must avoid:P otherwise AT TIMES it can be a good thing ...
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good principles...difficult to stick to..but really helpful..:-)
@Ishi: Well don't they say life is difficult? Sure it is, but if we keep it simple and straight, things are not so bad as said :)
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I vote for point 4, most imp!!!
@habloid: I am sorry but you are not allowed to pick and choose. j/k
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Well if things were to go smooth always it wouldve been awesome. Nothing can go smooth ever, you just gotta live with highs and lows and life is gonnaa rock real hard!
@blowitall: Yup, I wouldn't disagree with you about that. Yet, one should always seek to move towards perfection... IMHO
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IMHO kiya hota hai :s
:) In My Humble Opinion*
true :)
ahaan but theres a long list of BUTSSSSSS:P I mean...ahh forget it@@...See couples fight coz they're meant to....if a couple doesnt then what kinda couple it that??
@anummunaf: Thank you :)
@m3az: Very interesting perspective indeed, not that I agree but I like the way you think :P haha
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"We havent had a fight since we got married and infact...hear me bore you to death bla bla bla...These are all superficial speeches seriously and even between couple of a love marriage there are politics yup family politics believe it or not but there are!!!
@m3az: Okay, I wouldn't disagree with anything you have said this time.
Two people living together are bound to see up and downs in life, either it be personal conflicts or external pressures.
All what I have tried to explain is that one should try to idealise a situation and try to work its way towards it. What I have given is an ideal situation, perhaps never be achieveable, yet something to look for.
stop looking for things which aren't achieveable....simple as that...but again thats my view:P
ah, i totally agree with mindandbeyond! thank you!
and what's wrong with sarcasm???
@mazza: Hehe I know where you guys are coming from, yet I just tried to give an ideal situation ;)
and erm... nothing wrong with the occasional sarcasm, yet it MAY lead to not-so-nice-feelings in return :P
i like it,i think some times meanness is important to value your kindness.overall very good recipe.
Simple and true yet hard to be followed often
@naba: Thank you for liking it :)
@Heavenly Muse: I like to keep things simple and take small steps :)
and who said life is easy anyways?
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cool blog :)
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